rugi...

kalau betullah tolong orang angkat barang, sebab nak orang kata kite baik.

kalau betullah tolong masak-masak, sebab nak orang puji sedap.

kalau betullah pergi usrah dan seangkatan dengannya, sebab nak orang cop kite alim.

sometimes, when people see others changing for the better, they say it's because of them trying to please the society. but i say, give him/her a chance. stop wondering what his/her intentions a.k.a niat are, but focus instead on the things that they are doing. 

focus instead on;

barang-barang yang die tolong angkat. berat ke tak?

makanan yang die masak, sedap ke tak?

usrah etc yang die pergi, best ke tak?

cuz if you are judging others about their intentions, rugi. for you might end up being one yang bersangka buruk a.k.a thinking badly of others. plus, who said that one's niat is pure all the time? haven't you ever heard of a reminder of having to constantly renewing your niat?

of course,

rugi la mereka kalau niat salah.

tapi lagi rugi juga kita kalau asyik fikir diorang niat salah.

after all,
there is only One who can decide how pure one's intentions are.
and it's Allah SWT,
who is constantly Watching from above.

life is all about renewing our niat (intentions) for the sake of Allah, 

and Allah only. insyaAllah :)